Last Tuesday my bride and I went to see Wilco in Kansas City, MO.
Here's a picture of us waiting for the opening band to begin:
Starting in Springfield, MO, with a show that I saw with Dude some time ago, I met with Sound Engineer Stan Doty and at every show I have spoken with him. The latest sound board that he was working on was state-of-the-art and it was pretty cool just watching him do his magic on it. Here's Stan in this pic:
I know this is a blurry shot, but it proves we were there:
Before Wilco played Stan said that he would give me his set list, and he was true to his word:
After the show I asked Stan if there was a chance I could get some autographs from the band. He pointed to an after-party that was going on in stage right, but he also said that the lead singer, Jeff Tweedy, doesn't go to many of the after parties, instead he likes to head straight for his tour bus.
So, we went over the the after party area where a bouncer told us that you couldn't buy your way in, you had to know somebody. When I asked him if there was any way we could get an autograph or picture he said that sometimes if you wait by the tour buses you can get one as they head out of town.
We went over to the buses where we met another couple, Shannon and his wife Michelle. Shannon said that it was his birthday in 10 minutes (it was 10 till midnight) and that Wilco was his favorite band too.
There were three tour buses and one Semi-trailer for the tour. I asked the first bus who was on it, and they said it was for the opening band. The second bus had it's interior lights on, and there was no noticeable activity in the third bus. Shannon and I nosed around the second bus, and I found Jeff Tweedy having a conversation/argument with someone who claimed that he was Jeff's brother from the doorway of the bus.
This supposed brother stormed off with his wife cursing Jeff's name... then minutes later I guess they decided that they weren't as mad as they once thought as they walked toward the after party. (My guess is that they were trying an old-school con, Like in
There Will Be Blood and that the dude wasn't Jeff's brother, just somebody looking for a handout.)
BUT - we found Jeff's bus! So we hung back for a bit and I explained to Shannon and our brides that this was indeed Jeff's bus, and he needs some cool-down time.
I got the cajones to knock on the bus door. What's the worst that can happen? Jeff's assistant (not his manager, because that's Tony Margarita and I've seen him in some Wilco videos) came to the door and I said, "My buddy Shannon's birthday is today, and we were wondering if we could get a quick photo with Jeff?"
"Jeff is having a rough night, but I'll see what I can do."
At this point I looked at Jenna and asked her to get her phone ready to take a picture of me, and she said that she was good to go.
A minute later, Jeff came down and shook Shannon's hand saying happy birthday. They took a picture, and I moved in asking for a pic myself. Jeff asked me who I was, and Shannon said I was his "brother" (kind of ironic now that I think of it).
Instead of Jenna getting out her phone to take the picture, she let Shannon's wife, Michelle take it, and told me to pull down my shirt because it was popping up! [Gosh Mom!]
Shannon emailed me the pic the next morning, and said that I earned it because I had the cajones to knock and ask for the pic. (
Knock and the door shall be opened, ask you will receive.)
The best part was that the people in the after party did not get to meet the lead singer/song writer, I DID SUCKA! As we walked to our car I told Jenna that I felt like
Josh Furnal when he met Iron and Wine or
when he took that awesome class by NT Wright 
For the love of God,
Tim